What is Love ?

Hi,

I know most of you may think love is a feeling. Don't get miss leaded, it is not a pure feeling, it has two modes (feeling & Need).

That is why you can love any one who seems nice, you only love when you need love and when you don't you do not love. There is a feeling called love, if you have that, you can not love every nice person who comes on you way.

Eg -
1) When you hate some one can you do the same hate to another person and replace the previous person. No, right, so that is a feeling.
2) When you lover your mother , father children , can you replace them, No, right. So it is a feeling
3) When you need love can you get it from anyone that you seems nice and good, Ohhhh. If yes, then you have a need, but if don't you have a feeling.
4) When you love you bike/phone/car, can it be replaced by a better one or model, Yes ah, so that is need

So it is very simple, In my life I have love feeling for a women who has love need. She tend to get it from anyone who seems nice and then she will not feel bad about me. If some one comes and tell her I love you you are nice, she will jump in and say I love you too and secretly go out also will forget my feelings and say bad things to me with that guy. When she feels lonely and those guys leave them, she comes back and say I love you.

Love is complex when you have love feeling and love need but when you have love feeling and love feeling or love need and love need. your relationship will be fine.

So love has two modes.
Love Need & Love Feeling.

Unfortunately I have love feeling and she has Love need. So I will cry for the rest of my life and be sad. Anyone who ask me to get over, I ask them, first jump to the water and tell me whether you can swim the way you tell me on the ground. Also you may have love need not feeling like me so you will never understand and can not tell me to get over.

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Problems in life

Dear Humans,

Technically speaking, in life there is at least one problem for a person that troubles them and keep them insane.

No matter how rich you are or no matter how beautiful or handsome you are, you will have some thing to worry. Sometime it is some thing that you have control to give up or some thing that you do not have control over.

For most of the humans it is love. When it comes to love I have noticed below,

1) The one who cares less or have more options will have more power over the relationship and will be peaceful  Because no matter what they do and no matter who they hookup with secretly, they are ok and other person will always suffer that they can not even imagine. For this party, if they do some thing wrong (hook up with some one, get close to some one, call some one all the time at home, text some one at home), it is just a normal thing and the other person is filthy to ask about that because they have a spoiled mind. But if the same thing done (Or even not) by the other party, that is wrong and they are cheating.

2) The ones who cares most and love more, this people always stuck with the other party, even though they trouble you and hookup with other guys and secretly falling love with other guys while you are their. But when the other person loves you when they need love, this person will be most happiest.

3) Bother parties love each other equally. Sorry guys I have seen this only in movies. If you have this, you are one in a million. Don't ever let go.

In my life, my girl always hook up with other new guys comes into her life and acts that is perfectly normal in a humans life in front of me. But even if i never though of something like that, she can call up a women's name (may be very very old relationship) and make me restless and get angry with me. How wonderful she is. She can say to me anytime, "pls. leave me and go". unfortunately people, I have heard what she talks with other guys and seen what she is texting and mailing. Also she say bad things to me with the other guy, (I have heard). So life sucks for me all the time. She is still the same. She say she love me and be with other guys in front of the way I get hurt and try to go out secretly, but unfortunately i see those.

So she goes away and comes back when she needs love, but when I need love when she doesn't, she just kick me out. When her life is not good, she wants me but when it is good I am garbage.

My life is like this, what to do, in all my life this is the only problem that is troubling me, other than this I have no problem or can say free man. Now she is in all my thoughts, i can never be free until she stop these things and be mine or I die. I drink every day, cry every day but she don't care because her life is fine and she likes to be close with all the guys if possible.

If there are people out there with perfect love and who do not cheat each other, you are the luckiest and if you cheat other person, trust me they know and they cry daily like me. So stop that because as a person who cheat other people and who play with other person's life and feelings, you don't know how much it hurts and you will never understand. But let the other person loves you, you will definitely reach heaven, because of that love and you will be successful.

Take Care!.
Love truly and don't cheat. if you can't don't start loving.

Love will make you strong and complete but if other person cheats you, love will make you weaker that you couldn't even imagine.

I know sometime nobody will read this, but just wanted to write this in case, some one who is cheating, playing with other's love and life will find this and do the right thing.When the day you do, just comment, because I will always be here. (just a lonely man who is being killed daily by his loving girl)

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