What is Love ?

Hi,

I know most of you may think love is a feeling. Don't get miss leaded, it is not a pure feeling, it has two modes (feeling & Need).

That is why you can love any one who seems nice, you only love when you need love and when you don't you do not love. There is a feeling called love, if you have that, you can not love every nice person who comes on you way.

Eg -
1) When you hate some one can you do the same hate to another person and replace the previous person. No, right, so that is a feeling.
2) When you lover your mother , father children , can you replace them, No, right. So it is a feeling
3) When you need love can you get it from anyone that you seems nice and good, Ohhhh. If yes, then you have a need, but if don't you have a feeling.
4) When you love you bike/phone/car, can it be replaced by a better one or model, Yes ah, so that is need

So it is very simple, In my life I have love feeling for a women who has love need. She tend to get it from anyone who seems nice and then she will not feel bad about me. If some one comes and tell her I love you you are nice, she will jump in and say I love you too and secretly go out also will forget my feelings and say bad things to me with that guy. When she feels lonely and those guys leave them, she comes back and say I love you.

Love is complex when you have love feeling and love need but when you have love feeling and love feeling or love need and love need. your relationship will be fine.

So love has two modes.
Love Need & Love Feeling.

Unfortunately I have love feeling and she has Love need. So I will cry for the rest of my life and be sad. Anyone who ask me to get over, I ask them, first jump to the water and tell me whether you can swim the way you tell me on the ground. Also you may have love need not feeling like me so you will never understand and can not tell me to get over.

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